Sometimes we walk around our beautiful city, Oakland. We stroll by Lake Merritt and have to cross busy Harrison street to get there. I always feel just a little bit safer, warmer when my man holds my hand crossing the street. Take this and apply it to when are not feeling so lovey dovey. Even the smallest touch can help. The chemicals in our bodies react even if we don’t know it. Try talking and touching simultaneously. A hand on the small of the back, or facing each other with arms around each others waist. Even if you are sitting on the couch, remember to touch. Play with her hair, or place your hand on his knee. Even if nothing sexual arrives, this is connection and can lead to a loving gaze, a kiss, or a great conversation. Go ahead and try it! It’s pretty difficult to have an argument while holding hands!