“My husband never touches me anymore” or “my wife will never have sex with me” or “I’m always the one having to initiate sex,” sound familiar? What is it really like in your bedroom? Sex is everywhere in the media but how does it translate into your own home?
Most people feel out of balance in this jam packed busy world of ours and loose the opportunity to connect. We forget how to, or get stuck in some depleting routine that doesn’t serve us or our partners. Sex is, among other things, merely another way to communicate. If you are having trouble communicating, you bet your sex life isn’t that great either. These two are inexorably connected in a relationship.
If your sex life could talk, what would it say?
- Both partners get a piece of paper
- Each write down how they think the other initiates sex non verbally
- Match up and see if your cues are being see and heard the right way
- Go try out some non verbal communication!
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