Lord knows you have the days where you question if you can ever even last another hour, with your spouse in the same room where everything down to the sound of their breathing is annoying, we have all been there.  What you might not know is counseling can be preventative and isn’t just for the moments like these where you are ready to practically give up.  Hopefully you are someone who intends to keep growing and learning about yourself, others around you, the growth of your community and city of the East Bay Area and the world as a whole.  As we age, it is healthy to keep growing and not stay stagnant. This means learning about the way world is changing, learning from others around us and our relationships.  Having a tool  like counseling for your marriage is something to be used when you feel connected or when you don’t.  Having a trained professional therapist help guide you through some sticky  moments is always a breath of fresh air not having to figure it out on your own, but imagine the support and validation and the depth of love you can arrive at having that guided support in not only trouble shooting, but aiding the deepening of your love?  Shedding light on some things that you didn’t know where there.  Supporting vulnerability and contentedness.  Solidifying the team mentality with your spouse. Plan a date night: Call me www.healinghappenstherapy.com  to set an hour session, then go have dinner reservations downtown Oakland or Berkeley and oodle all over each other with the things you learned about how much you are loved!